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Love Language


Love Language

This is the way of expressing one's love feelings towards one's family, friend, spouse, girlfriend, or any other loved one

Primary Language of Love: I refer to this as the best preferred way or act to express one's love to another person.

Major Love Languages are:
1. Words of affirmation
2. Giving of gifts
3. Acts of service
4. Quality time
5. Physical touch

All humans have one or more of the 5 major Love Languages as part of their attribute. They show it unconsciously to everyone they get closely related to.
Most people don't know their Love Languages and that's part of the reasons they have interpersonal problems relating among friends, associates, colleagues, families etc.

Love Languages aren't only for people sexually related or people in love but exist among friends and family. It is the way you presently relate with siblings, families and friends that you most likely extend to that soul mate of yours.
Some people don't see these languages necessary, some are ignorant about it but we do always have to overlook the purpose driven character and the visionary nature of men or abandon the emotional instability of women.

Identifying one's Love Language is paramount when getting to understand oneself, so you won't cross laid down boundaries, get hurt when wounds are touched and overreact when happy and excited creating a space of chance to the person that knows your language.
Take time to study yourself to know your major love Language(s) which can save you from that emotional disorder  or be an hindrance to your visions and purpose.

Have a nice day.


Comments

  1. Anonymous31 August 2015 at 22:46

    A good read this is and it leads me to ask how do you know someone's love language if you don't spend time with such person.

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    1. Opeyanju3 September 2015 at 11:41

      Well I think you spend time with the person to know his/her Language but mind you, you can only know if the person shows it to you.( Thats my view)

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  2. yanjuolami1 September 2015 at 00:16

    love is a delicate topic, its communication(language) is sensitive, although am of the opinion that the language majors are more than the five mentioned above and we need to be more sensitive to others love when dey communicate, but i totally agree with ur perspective and suggestions. nice keep it up.

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  3. Opeyanju3 September 2015 at 11:47

    Thank you Yanjuola. We have both primary and secondary love languages. The listed above are the Major primary Languages. The primary love Language is like your mother's tongue(dialet) while the secondary love Language is like the language you learn in school or any other place. Bringing us to the conclusion that there are many love languages but those are the Major Primary Love Language.

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  4. Unknown28 December 2015 at 21:22

    Always admire you and your write ups

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